February 20, 2025

To Change or Not to Change?

Change is that wonderful, dreadful thing that comes to us all and tests what we are made of.

Change is uncomfortable and tests our natural character and mindsets. It is definitely not convenient, and it contradicts our ‘safe” and “indifferent attitudes towards our responsibility to steward ourselves and the world around us. Every great transformation began with people who refused to accept the world as it was. Whether it was ending slavery, fighting injustice, creating opportunities for growth for the poor and bringing reform to systems, policies and structures. They stood fearlessly in the face of opposition, adversity, struggle and uncertainty, because they had a deep conviction and resolve of what they were called to do in those historical moments.

I quickly looked up major shifts and changes in the world, and here is what I found.

Here are some major societal shifts and changes in history that have shaped the world:

1. Political & Social Revolutions
• The American Revolution (1775-1783) → Birth of democracy in the U.S.
• The French Revolution (1789-1799) → Overthrew monarchy, introduced human rights.
• The Civil Rights Movement (1950s-1960s, U.S.) → Ended segregation and fought for racial equality.
• The Fall of the Berlin Wall (1989) → Marked the end of the Cold War and communism in Eastern Europe.
• The Arab Spring (2010-2012) → Series of uprisings against authoritarian governments.

2. Scientific & Technological Breakthroughs
• The Printing Press (1440, Johannes Gutenberg) → Revolutionized communication and literacy.
• The Industrial Revolution (18th-19th century) → Shift from agrarian to industrial societies.
• The Digital Revolution (20th-21st century) → Rise of computers, the internet, and AI.
• Space Exploration (Moon Landing 1969, Mars Rovers 21st century) → Expanded human understanding beyond Earth.

3. Human Rights & Equality Movements
• Abolition of Slavery (1800s, worldwide) → Major legal and social shifts in multiple countries.
• Women’s Suffrage (Late 19th-20th century) → Gave women the right to vote and expanded gender equality.
• LGBTQ+ Rights Movements (20th-21st century) → Legalization of same-sex marriage and protections.
• Disability Rights Movement (20th century) → Advocated for accessibility and inclusion.

4. Religious & Philosophical Shifts
• The Protestant Reformation (1517, Martin Luther) → Challenged Catholic Church authority and reshaped Christianity.
• The Great Awakenings (18th-20th century) → Revivals that shaped modern faith and evangelism.
• Rise of Secularism & Humanism (Modern Era) → Shift toward science-based and human-centered worldviews.

5. Global Crises & Their Impact
• The Black Death (1347-1351) → Changed economies, labour systems, and social structures.
• World Wars I & II (1914-1918, 1939-1945) → Redrew borders, led to the UN, and shaped geopolitics.
• The COVID-19 Pandemic (2019-Present) → Accelerated digital transformation and reshaped public health policies.

We have moved through decades of fear-mongering and what I call modern-day slavery. Work, pay your taxes and become silenced on issues of social justice and abuse; many good people allow vicious cycles of dysfunction and disparity to continue to exist. They say evil rises and multiplies when good people say nothing and do nothing. Every time we draw back, avoid, bury our heads in the sand and pretend things are not as bad as they are, we give rise to false narratives that create complacency. 

Complacency is the silent enemy of change. The major obstacle has been complacency throughout every great shift in society, politics, faith or technology. We silently accept the status quo and are more tribal(conforming) than we think. It is, after all, easier to do what the pack is doing, and asking intelligent questions is sadly frowned upon. This disempowers humanity and society, so we develop a culture resistant and antagonistic towards change. The conditioning is so subliminal if you blink, you might miss it. We are like hamsters on a wheel. We are dulled and numbed down as the blind leads the blind, following the pied piper up the hill. I know I am using a lot of metaphors here; I know you get the picture.  The belief that things are “good enough” and do need change is why many individuals and institutions continue in mediocrity and breed complacency.

The cost of not advancing is retreating. The cost becomes stagnation over progress. When we don’t adapt, change to new challenges, and operate on assumption alone, we set ourselves up for a fall. Adapt or collapse. Many injustices throughout history could have ended sooner, but many people remained passive, hiding, avoiding and covering up lies. Study the past to divine the future, slavery, segregation, gender inequality and abuse. Martin Luther once said, “ The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by good people.”  What has silenced and paralyzed us in this way is that we do everything in our power to avoid difficult situations, and we continue to perpetuate the cycles of brokenness and pain. All it takes is one person to break the cycle to cause a rippling effect. Complacency will weaken personal and collective faith. Inaction is counterintuitive to faith. People, nations and communities that fail to embrace change will miss opportunities for growth, development and expansion, falling behind and becoming ineffective in current times.

We need to become aware and acknowledge where complacency has crept in. Allow yourself to dream again, spark the vision within to see a better future, and take small steps towards it. Take the courage to disrupt comfort zones and what is ‘normal.’ You were not born to fit in but to stand up and stand for something. Everyone contributes towards a better future. Take action toward one thing that is important to you and your organization. Give yourself permission to try one new idea, one new thing you have not done for a long time. Change is inevitable; you can bend with change or blend in and break because you choose the quality of your life and those around you. Waiting too long might cause you to lose momentum, and procrastination may lie to you about all the great things that change can bring you.

Change does not happen overnight or by accident. Some of the greatest revolutions, inventions, awakenings, comebacks and turnarounds have come from those who refused to settle, give up, back off, shut up or stop. Complacency kills progress, but living and acting on your convictions fuels transformation.

Change is one of life’s most inevitable, necessary, and significant parts, yet it is met with resistance, fear and denial. Whether on a personal level, within organizations, or across entire societies, change is difficult because it disrupts comfort, challenges identity and demands action. We are wired for stability and predictability, and when faced with unknowns and uncertainty, the brain perceives it as a threat.  People naturally prefer what they know; upsetting the status quo, traditions, or “normal” may be too disruptive.

Change requires effort, and those with emotional and psychological barriers may experience barriers. It does get us to rethink who we are and what we are doing. For example, restructuring an organization may threaten one’s control and self-determination.  Intentional efforts to change require learning new habits, unlearning old mindsets, and willingly stepping into discomfort. It does involve risk. People fear what others think and how others would react if they implement change. Societal, traditional, and cultural norms preset our mindsets and worldviews. Pushing against this conditioning can be challenging and requires courage. Coaching is great for overcoming these barriers and limiting beliefs and can really help move you forward.

Change is hard, but not doing anything at all can be harder and counterintuitive over time. Growth, transformation, impact, and initiatives can only happen when we fully embrace the awkward, uncomfortable, and unfamiliar territory and the grace to flow like water, even if we are afraid to move forward.

Change that aligns with growth and leadership is the path to transformation.

Change requires Courage to step into the unknown despite fear. Hope in believing for a better future and trusting the process. Action – taking intentional steps no matter how small. New Mindset – reframing challenges as opportunities. Growth – learning, evolving, and embracing discomfort. Empowerment – building strength and resilience through change and inspiring others.

Join me on this journey as we explore transformational coaching and how we can facilitate change for you and your organization.

“ Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.”  Magaret Mead

 

Rebekah Harding